Tuesday, March 27, 2012
learning
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Rachel
Well, I struggled long and hard with this one. At first I thought I would try to capture a photo of the ghetto (we kinda have one - it's a predominantly black neighborhood; more on that below) or a woman being pinched on the ass by some random man. Either of those would have sufficed. I mean, that's what we're looking for right? Injustice. So, why not pick two of the largest demographics who have dealt with inequality and discrimination? And, I did, but not in the way I assumed I would.
I was in Charleston, SC last weekend with a group from school. We stayed at this really hip little hostel in a somewhat sketchy neighborhood. I loved it. We walked downtown on Saturday morning and I saw this building on the road. I instantly asked, "Wait, these still exist? This organization?" My comrades just smiled at the ignorant little California girl and nodded their heads. Yes, of course it still exists.
Dipstick.
You see, I grew up in a world that seemed relatively colorblind (is that politically correct?). Or, at least, I thought I did. But then I moved out here to North Carolina - a somewhat southern state (south of the Mason-Dixon line! They tell me.) - and I saw more interracial couples here than I have ever seen in my life. Seriously, I was surprised at how much it surprised me. I mean, this was the south, right? They don't accept interracial couples. That's something we enlightened Californians do. We are accepting of all people (except Mexicans, they steal our jobs, duh.). Right?
I'm not so sure. I think maybe I have been under the impression that the south is synonymous with racism and the West with free-spirit thinking, or whatever. But is ignoring reality better than working through it?
The South seems to be very aware of its past and reputation. For instance, here in Wilmington in 1898 a black government was voted into power. Instead of acknowledging defeat by a democratic election the white male leaders revolted against the results. Death tolls vary with estimates ranging to 100. The armed men destroyed the building that housed the only African-American newspaper in the state. It has been termed a race riot, a massacre, and, most recently, a coup d'état. A coup d'état, people. In the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. Why had I never heard of this, the only successful coup that has ever occurred in the U.S.?
Because, I'm from California where I had barely even heard about lynching let alone the utter disregard of a legally elected government.
But, I've learned it here. The place where it occurred. From people who live here, grew up here. People who know their history. Does it change everything? No. There are still racial lines drawn in this city. There are sections in this city where the majority of the poorer, black community lives (in what resemble nothing close to the destination/historic/vacation spot that the city so desperately tries to convey just blocks to the west). And the white people live in the suburbs, of course.
All that to say, well I don't know what I'm trying to say. It exists. Racism. It has a strong presence in our history and continues well into our present. But, I am grateful that, even though it isn't fixed, there are people who don't disregard it.
I don't want to disregard it.
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Egregious & sacrifice
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Julia
I'm picking two words, because I can. And because I can't decide between the two.
Being that it's black history month and since women's history month is up next, I determined this word appropriate. I mean the injustices have been egregious, right? Obviously, your picture doesn't have to interact with either of these two issues but being that these are the paramount issues regarding egregious injustice, it probably will.
My second word is denial. Today is Mardi Gras, or Fat Tuesday. This means tomorrow is Ash Wednesday and Lent begins. I'm not entirely sure what I'm going to give up, I have some ideas but I Lent is on the forefront of my mind and so therefore, is denial.
Bonus points to the sister who can encapsulate these two words together in a photo. And bonus points to the sister who captures these words beautifully in two separate photos. Since Herrington's are winners I'm setting up an impossible to lose, winning situation here. "Do your worst" (and by worst, I mean best).
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Being that it's black history month and since women's history month is up next, I determined this word appropriate. I mean the injustices have been egregious, right? Obviously, your picture doesn't have to interact with either of these two issues but being that these are the paramount issues regarding egregious injustice, it probably will.
My second word is denial. Today is Mardi Gras, or Fat Tuesday. This means tomorrow is Ash Wednesday and Lent begins. I'm not entirely sure what I'm going to give up, I have some ideas but I Lent is on the forefront of my mind and so therefore, is denial.
Bonus points to the sister who can encapsulate these two words together in a photo. And bonus points to the sister who captures these words beautifully in two separate photos. Since Herrington's are winners I'm setting up an impossible to lose, winning situation here. "Do your worst" (and by worst, I mean best).
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Location:Smack dab in the middle of black history month & heading into women's history month.
Monday, January 9, 2012
Fan mail
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Julia
Sisters are weird. I was thinking about my post today and took pictures for it 6 hours ago but haven't had a chance to write a bit and put it up. I haven't even read yours yet Rach, I didn't want to be influenced by your genius.
It was visceral, it wasn't reasonable, it wasn't intellectual. It was all emotive and feeling, instinctual, frontal feelings. It was immediate and unwavering, coming home to lily's on my bedside suitcase. Part of me hates to admit it, but I loved feeling cared for in this way. I was surprised and cared for and appreciated and thought of.
Thanks Em!


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It was visceral, it wasn't reasonable, it wasn't intellectual. It was all emotive and feeling, instinctual, frontal feelings. It was immediate and unwavering, coming home to lily's on my bedside suitcase. Part of me hates to admit it, but I loved feeling cared for in this way. I was surprised and cared for and appreciated and thought of.
Thanks Em!


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Location:France
where my mind goes
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Rachel
Visceral : not intellectual : instinctive
I saw this store(/restaurant/club/obviouslydnotthatobservant?) sign and immediately my mind went to Arrested Development. And that, folks, is how my mind works. Almost any situation reminds me of a scene or line from a movie or show. It's usually inappropriate for the situation and I find myself laughing. By myself.
I would like to think that my quote memorization skills were something intellectual but those skills don't translate into any productive area of my life. Quotes just happen. Instinctively.
Buster: I ought to point to Uncle Oscar's Charlie Browns next time you're on top of him, mother.
(cue George Michael walking down the street to the sad-day Charlie Brown theme song.)
Monday, November 28, 2011
word to your motha'
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Rachel
Visceral
- DEFINITION
adjective
1
: felt in or as if in the internal organs of the body
2
: not intellectual : instinctive
3
: dealing with crude or elemental emotions
4
: of, relating to, or located on or among the internal organs of the body
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Takin' it Easy
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Julia
Time Spent with my baby sister in the woods, on a swing, at a Jackson Browne concert, in my lap in a hot tub (telling me of the woes of a high school girl), that for me is rest.

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Location:Redding, CA
Sunday, October 2, 2011
give it a rest
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Rachel
True confessions: sometimes I am envious of my cats. They spend 80% of their days sleeping (or something like that).
I have been so overwhelmed with school this semester. I feel like I am always reading. I get up early to read, I stay up late to read, and in between I write papers. I know, it's college, it's all part and parcel. But seriously, exhaustion sucks. How long can a person maintain that kind of routine?
The other day I was studying in bed (that was my first mistake) and Houston was sprawled out at the foot of the bed. I'm pretty sure I just stared at him for five minutes, wishing I could just shut my eyes for a few moments. So, I followed suit: thirty glorious minutes of sleep. Naps are the cure for exhaustion.
The other day I was studying in bed (that was my first mistake) and Houston was sprawled out at the foot of the bed. I'm pretty sure I just stared at him for five minutes, wishing I could just shut my eyes for a few moments. So, I followed suit: thirty glorious minutes of sleep. Naps are the cure for exhaustion.
Cats are geniuses. And anti-social. But I think those things go hand-in-hand.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Rest
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Julia
I've been exhausted lately. Like, I want to sleep all the time. Encapsulate for me, photograph please the thing that alleviates tire, exhaustion, sleepiness, weariness...
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Location:From my bed
it's the simple things
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Rachel
I don't know what it is about baked things. I love them. I even love simply walking through the baking aisle at the market. Cakes, regular or cupped size, cookies, breads... you name it, I probably want to eat it. Or bake it. Bake it, then eat it.
The other night we were strolling around downtown Wilmington and I saw that chalkboard sign. All the restaurants have them and they always say funny little things. But they had never read my mind. But, really, I did want it in my belly. Carrot Cupcake with Cream Cheese Frosting. Simply yummy.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
Sitting pretty
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Julia
I love pictures of people. I love faces. Sitting and relaxing on a patio, it's a simple pleasure really. Capturing the essence of easy comfort that comes with rest; kickin' back, chillin' and relaxin' all cool.



Wish you were here Rach!
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Wish you were here Rach!
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Location:Sitting on patios everywhere.
Monday, August 15, 2011
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Quotidian
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Julia
It should come as no surprise:
It is something you imbibe:

Sometimes you have it on dates with good friends:

Dates with people you miss:

I like mine strong and black (like I like my men and Presidents and so on and so forth):

It's also good with pie. It's also good to have with the folks you go on "Pie Dates" with (who you also miss):

Sometimes you make fun of Michelle when you drink it:

Sometimes it's so good, you want to savor every drop of it but you spill it at the Farmer's Market in San Francisco (which wasn't so bad because you were with your family):

I make it everyday:

With a smile (even for people I don't prefer):

If you don't know me by now...you'll never, ever, ever know me:
No, I'm not a Boyz to Men Song, I'm coffee. I am the bane of your existence. I'm your drug, your comfort, your wakefulness, your addiction, your tastiness, your loveliness. But mostly, I'm your everyday.

At least it's MY everyday, quotidian really.
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It is something you imbibe:

Sometimes you have it on dates with good friends:

Dates with people you miss:

I like mine strong and black (like I like my men and Presidents and so on and so forth):

It's also good with pie. It's also good to have with the folks you go on "Pie Dates" with (who you also miss):

Sometimes you make fun of Michelle when you drink it:

Sometimes it's so good, you want to savor every drop of it but you spill it at the Farmer's Market in San Francisco (which wasn't so bad because you were with your family):

I make it everyday:

With a smile (even for people I don't prefer):

If you don't know me by now...you'll never, ever, ever know me:
No, I'm not a Boyz to Men Song, I'm coffee. I am the bane of your existence. I'm your drug, your comfort, your wakefulness, your addiction, your tastiness, your loveliness. But mostly, I'm your everyday.

At least it's MY everyday, quotidian really.
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Monday, July 18, 2011
erryday
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Rachel
Or at least it feels like it. We have these neighbors who fight. ALL THE TIME. Maybe not everyday (definition of quotidian), but it sure feels like it. Usually we only hear it muffled so it's not that big of a deal, just sad. But one day I came home from school and he came home at the exact same time, he flings open the door and they just go at it. And they don't close the door. It's okay though, because I ran through mine. I was so uncomfortable. I mean not that arguments don't happen but incessant screaming matches? Something has to be wrong. And then, like clockwork, after pretty much each and every fight, he comes out, sits on the stairs, and enjoys a nice, long cigarette break. I walked by this little beauty and just had to snap it. Looks like he didn't get to finish that last break, but don't worry, he'll be back.
And, ya know, sometimes I just want to ask her why they stay together. Not that he is the only one to blame, in fact, it seems terribly unhealthy for the both of them. And, not to be a complainer, but the cigarette butts and smell I could do without.
We're moving to a different apartment this weekend and this couple will forever be out of our lives but there were definitely times when they reminded me how good we have it.
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Quotidian
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Julia
There you go Rach. Bring it. Tell your mom she better have seconds at Sunday Dinner! :)
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Sunday, July 10, 2011
Oh-my-gaudy!
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Julia
My room mate Amanda is engaged. Planning a wedding is the consequence of marital engagement. Being the love cynic that I am, you can imagine that all the hoopla regarding these events is regarded with a snarky attitude on my end. In fact, my other room mate, Kelsey and I find the hysteria about weddings and love bizarre enough to have joked about starting an anti-wedding blog and titling it; "Nauseated at Nuptial Bliss." (Don't hold your breath).
Amanda is a far cry from a "Bridezilla." She's relaxed and finds our musings about these things entertaining and relatively understandable. However, we do have copious amounts of bridal magazines in our house (which, in my excitement over Chase and Amanda's engagement, I'll admit I contributed to our lot with gladness. I mean, it's absurd to expect a girl to plan a wedding without at least five of these handy manuscripts.) Karma really is, as they say, a "bee-yotch" or, fate has a cruel sense of humor, because one morning I stubbed my toe so hard on a tall pile of those magazines and drew blood. After whispered profanities in the early hours of the morning, trying not to wake my house mates I thought; "Now if that wasn't a metaphor for my life, I don't know what is."
One night Kels and I flipped through a magazine and neither of us could find a single dress we would ever agree to wear. The contents of these magazines are oftentimes; gimcrack, unbelievably gaudy.
Amanda found her dress yesterday!

And no, it doesn't make her look like a cupcake with those paper Asian fans hot glued gun all over the place like the one on the cover of this magazine. Nope, Amanda's classy with a great sense of style and a heart I'm going to miss a whole heap when she move's out this month.

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Amanda is a far cry from a "Bridezilla." She's relaxed and finds our musings about these things entertaining and relatively understandable. However, we do have copious amounts of bridal magazines in our house (which, in my excitement over Chase and Amanda's engagement, I'll admit I contributed to our lot with gladness. I mean, it's absurd to expect a girl to plan a wedding without at least five of these handy manuscripts.) Karma really is, as they say, a "bee-yotch" or, fate has a cruel sense of humor, because one morning I stubbed my toe so hard on a tall pile of those magazines and drew blood. After whispered profanities in the early hours of the morning, trying not to wake my house mates I thought; "Now if that wasn't a metaphor for my life, I don't know what is."
One night Kels and I flipped through a magazine and neither of us could find a single dress we would ever agree to wear. The contents of these magazines are oftentimes; gimcrack, unbelievably gaudy.
Amanda found her dress yesterday!

And no, it doesn't make her look like a cupcake with those paper Asian fans hot glued gun all over the place like the one on the cover of this magazine. Nope, Amanda's classy with a great sense of style and a heart I'm going to miss a whole heap when she move's out this month.

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Wednesday, June 22, 2011
cheap
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Rachel
Don't get me wrong, the only expensive piece(s) of jewelry I own are my engagement/wedding rings but there is something about fake pearls that just make me want real ones. Whenever I see a woman with a string of pearls resting at the base of her neck, she just seems so classy. I want to be that classy. I want to be that put together. I don't have any pearls real or fake. Maybe I'll get these ones. I'll pretend to be that woman, that one who looks so perfectly coifed and elegant. And maybe I'll have some real pearls someday.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Because I'm twelve
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Rachel
Next word: gimcrack
Which surprisingly does not refer to the unfortunate viewing of random derrière during that lame required class where they make you run. Like you're a runner.
Definition: \JIM-krak\
1. (n) A showy but useless or worthless object
2. (adj) Tastelessly showy; cheap; gaudy.
capiche?
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Blameless
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Julia
Flowers and babies, that's what I thought of when I considered the word, "inculpable." Oh, and of course, Jesus (but he's hard to take pictures of).
I thought of flowers because they're lovely. Their sin is making things smell nice and captivating us aesthetically. Aside from existing in a fallen world, they perpetuate goodness and beauty. These stopped me on my run this morning and asked me to revel in their magnificence.

I'm serious, they did, it was as if I could hear them.
Babies, because they have nothing to be blamed for yet. They've just sought nurturance inside a safe place. They have stayed cozy, warm and fed as they've grown.
This is Alex, with a little one, already loved and almost ready to greet the world. I think Alex will mother thoughtfully, fully and grandly. I think this picture demonstrates something that maybe only a pregnant mother can. She is not only literally pregnant with a child but figuratively pregnant with expectancy, hope, life, love and innocence...FULL of all these things. I think that's why pregnant women "glow."

The day will come when "inculpable" won't be a word used to describe this babe. But for now "she" (for some reason I feel convinced it's a girl, which either means my intuition rocks or I'm crazy for being so certain of something so unfounded) is without guilt. But the wonderful thing is, that even when she is found guilty of some sort of wrong, she will be fully loved. And if it's a boy, he will too.
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I thought of flowers because they're lovely. Their sin is making things smell nice and captivating us aesthetically. Aside from existing in a fallen world, they perpetuate goodness and beauty. These stopped me on my run this morning and asked me to revel in their magnificence.

I'm serious, they did, it was as if I could hear them.
Babies, because they have nothing to be blamed for yet. They've just sought nurturance inside a safe place. They have stayed cozy, warm and fed as they've grown.
This is Alex, with a little one, already loved and almost ready to greet the world. I think Alex will mother thoughtfully, fully and grandly. I think this picture demonstrates something that maybe only a pregnant mother can. She is not only literally pregnant with a child but figuratively pregnant with expectancy, hope, life, love and innocence...FULL of all these things. I think that's why pregnant women "glow."

The day will come when "inculpable" won't be a word used to describe this babe. But for now "she" (for some reason I feel convinced it's a girl, which either means my intuition rocks or I'm crazy for being so certain of something so unfounded) is without guilt. But the wonderful thing is, that even when she is found guilty of some sort of wrong, she will be fully loved. And if it's a boy, he will too.
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Saturday, June 4, 2011
"Uh-uh, not guilty."
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Rachel
Weirdly, when I saw Julia's word pick I immediately pictured the Hungarian woman from Chicago.
I took this picture at Joann's fabric store, the most prominent reason being that I feel less guilty about spending money on clothes if I am going to make them than when I buy them. I love clothes but they can get pretty expensive and justifying a new dress or skirt is difficult, but if I spend money on fabric then not only am I getting a new item of clothing but I also am improving my skills in the craft of sewing.
Theoretically.
Realistically, I spend as much (if not more) on fabric, zippers, buttons, etc., that it probably loses all value. Which led me to my next reason: the reason many stores are able to sell their clothes so cheaply is that they are made in other countries by children or adults who are grossly underpaid and, in many cases, endangered in the work place, this fact is nothing new. Sadly, that fact doesn't really stop me from shopping at said stores (although I wish I had the means/will power to do so) but each time I make a new article of clothing I am, at least in that moment, not contributing to the mistreatment of people in sweatshops both here and overseas. Maybe someday I'll be able to fully clothe myself and thus be inculpable from perpetuating the system. Or, make enough money to only shop at stores who don't use sweatshops.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Inculpable
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Julia
Inculpable.
According to Merriam Webster: free from guilt; blameless.
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According to Merriam Webster: free from guilt; blameless.
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